Thursday 12 February 2015

That Thing called Embrace aka Hug..:)




I'm not into all this Valentine Day stuff as of now but wanted to write a piece today. Socha behti ganga me haath dho le.. Aaj sunne me aa rha hai ki Hug Day hai.. Though I'm not much experienced in this field but I love watching hugs aka embraces and all in the movies like most of us do.. I love the feel uski.. Hugs I guess are of various types..





1. The Incomplete One-Arm Hug : When you are too lazy to raise the other arm for a decent hug.

2. The Complete Friend Hug : When you can properly hug someone..



3. The Waist & Neck Hold Hug : When u you are either with that person , you missed them a lot or
you  are just super close friends.


4. The Hug from Behind : When you surprise a person with a hug or you are with that person..

5. Squeeze to Death Bear Hug : where
you are either the squeezer or dying one. When you meet a long lost buddy after a long time toh wo jo bear hug hota hai..mast hota hai by God.. Dekhne walo ko lagta hai k wo log saans kaise le rhe ya dono me se bus ek hi bachega..




6. The Lifting Hug - where
you just wanna hug tighter..

7. The Running Hug : where
you miss or love the other..

8. The Long Hug : when
you just don't ever want to let go..

9. When you are going on a journey or when you study in another city n come back home in the holidays toh wo jaadu ki jhappi from your parents & loved ones..wo maa ka pyaar..feels amazing yaar..




10. One of my favorites is when we meet our close friends/best friends/loved ones toh wo wala if genuine is cute n lovely..& the feeling I guess would be amazing or out of the world like someone who cares for
you wali or having a glimpse of the awesome memories (time files) created together coz Friends r always special..wo melting into the arms waali feeling..aaye haaye..



11. In our office when the farewells were done properly tab bhi wo farewell hugs were nice..& if the friendship was good then
you could notice a few tears at the corner of the eyes symbolizing memories of the wonderful times spent together..miss those days..


12. When
you rare not well or depressed over something tab if any of your friends just comes n gives you that jaadu ki jhappi instead of saying anything then that would be the best medicine anyone could give n the feeling would be out of the world..coz when we are feeling low then we don't need advice as all of us know what we need to do. We just need love n unconditional acceptance..

13. Wo formality wale hugs eg. politicians wale..jab unhe kisi ko zabardasti gale lagana padta hoga logo n media ko dikhaane ko ya koi kaam nikalwaane ko..


 P.S. But sometimes we need simple hugs to set things right n make people feel special or to tell them "Hey, I really care for
you..You mean the world to me or I value you / I love you.." or "Hey, you are special n you have been sent on this beautiful earth to make it a better more wonderful place to live in..Value yourself n don't feel like you are not important..You are awesome just the  way you are.. A hug delights and warms and charms, that must be why God gave us arms..