"Chalo hum hi pehel kar de ki humse badguma kyu ho.. Koi rishta zara si zidd k khatir raida kyu ho.." It is something which most of us must have gone through.. Many a times, our friendships fade away with time coz both of us wait for the other person to initiate.. We generally think ki "If they don't call or text me then why should I ? " May be the other person is genuinely facing a hard time then as a good friend we need to be there for them all the more instead of drifting away.. If the other person is ignoring you on purpose then it's a different story altogether but tab bhi royal behavior would be to not create negative vibes coz u will get back what u radiate out..Ego will tell you to copy their behavior but real self-respect would be in talking sweetly Dil se even if the other person is rude coz that's the real challenge. I respect myself for being good irrespective of how others' behave.. & u know what most people just copy ur behavior so "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.." Let's love, respect and admire the innate goodness in every soul.. -Devika Tandon(DT)