Wednesday 25 November 2015


I just don't understand Y ppl look down upon others in d name of religion.. Islam also teaches love n peace..
I don't think terrorists have any religion..
Every religion teaches us to spread love, kindness, universal brotherhood..
4me all religions r different paths that lead to the same destination..
I don't consider Hinduism superior to other religions coz acceptance is what makes India great..Unity in Integrity.. Everyone is different.. V all have different perspectives.. Let's understand, love n respect r differences.. Y fight in d name of religion? Religions were meant to unite us n not to divide us..
We don't need to prove others inferior so as to prove ourselves superior coz at the end of the day, we won't take r bank balance to the graveyard. V'l just carry our sanskaars n karmic accounts so lets focus on what really matters..



Friday 10 July 2015

Maut ko yaad rakhe..

I read something which was written on an auto & it got me thinking..The exact line was "Maut ko yaad rakhe.."
I found it beautiful..It made me introspect n raised a series of questions..If  we remember death everyday then our life would be lovely.. Whenever we are about to do something then we can pause for a while & introspect that "If my soul had to leave this body today then will I behave in a similar fashion..If today were the last day of my life then will I get angry on someone..What would we take along with us to the graveyard - Jaguar, Bank balance, those branded clothes..? Kya le jayenge hum sath me ? It would be just our sanskaars & our karmic accounts..
Kyu ladd rahe ho Bhai ? Tum bhi Marne wale ho..Hum bhi Marne wale hai..Aaj se 80-90yrs me humme se kitne log jeevit rahenge ?
Y not focus on the things that really matter..? Remembering death would make our life more meaningful..It will make us focus on our purpose coz its no use living the same day over & over again & calling it a life..
How would u like to be remembered ? What would we like to hear in our funeral speech ? Would we do what we are about to do if today were the last day of our lives ? If the answer is No then we need to change something..
So, lets always remember death & lets do what we would love to receive back..:)

Wednesday 3 June 2015

THERE WOULD BE A HOLE IN CREATION IF U DIDN'T EXIST !!!!

You are unique!

Think what a remarkable, unduplicatable, and miraculous thing it is to be you! Of all the people who have come and gone on the earth, since the beginning of time, not ONE of them is like YOU!


No one who has ever lived or is to come has had your combination of abilities, talents, appearance, friends, acquaintances, burdens, sorrows and opportunities.
No one's hair grows exactly the way yours does. No one's finger prints are like yours. No one has the same combination of secret inside jokes and family expressions that you know.
 
The few people who laugh at all the same things you do, don't sneeze the way you do. No one prays about exactly the same concerns as you do. No one is loved by the same combination of people that love you - NO ONE!
No one before, no one to come. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY UNIQUE!



Enjoy that uniqueness. You do not have to pretend in order to seem more like someone else. You weren't meant to be like someone else. You do not have to lie to conceal the parts of you that are not like what you see in anyone else.

You were meant to be different. Nowhere ever in all of history will the same things be going on in anyone's mind, soul and spirit as are going on in yours right now.
If you did not exist, there would be a hole in creation, a gap in history, something missing from the plan for humankind.






Treasure your uniqueness. It is a gift given only to you. Enjoy it and share it!
No one can reach out to others in the same way that you can. No one can speak your words. No one can convey your meanings. No one can comfort with your kind of comfort. No one can bring your kind of understanding to another person.

No one can be cheerful and lighthearted and joyous in your way. No one can smile your smile. No one else can bring the whole unique impact of you to another human being.

Share your uniqueness. Let it be free to flow out among your family and friends and people you meet in the rush and clutter of living wherever you are. That gift of yourself was given to you to enjoy and share. Give yourself away!

See it! Receive it! Let it tickle you! Let it inform you and nudge you and inspire you! YOU ARE UNIQUE!

Thursday 12 February 2015

That Thing called Embrace aka Hug..:)




I'm not into all this Valentine Day stuff as of now but wanted to write a piece today. Socha behti ganga me haath dho le.. Aaj sunne me aa rha hai ki Hug Day hai.. Though I'm not much experienced in this field but I love watching hugs aka embraces and all in the movies like most of us do.. I love the feel uski.. Hugs I guess are of various types..





1. The Incomplete One-Arm Hug : When you are too lazy to raise the other arm for a decent hug.

2. The Complete Friend Hug : When you can properly hug someone..



3. The Waist & Neck Hold Hug : When u you are either with that person , you missed them a lot or
you  are just super close friends.


4. The Hug from Behind : When you surprise a person with a hug or you are with that person..

5. Squeeze to Death Bear Hug : where
you are either the squeezer or dying one. When you meet a long lost buddy after a long time toh wo jo bear hug hota hai..mast hota hai by God.. Dekhne walo ko lagta hai k wo log saans kaise le rhe ya dono me se bus ek hi bachega..




6. The Lifting Hug - where
you just wanna hug tighter..

7. The Running Hug : where
you miss or love the other..

8. The Long Hug : when
you just don't ever want to let go..

9. When you are going on a journey or when you study in another city n come back home in the holidays toh wo jaadu ki jhappi from your parents & loved ones..wo maa ka pyaar..feels amazing yaar..




10. One of my favorites is when we meet our close friends/best friends/loved ones toh wo wala if genuine is cute n lovely..& the feeling I guess would be amazing or out of the world like someone who cares for
you wali or having a glimpse of the awesome memories (time files) created together coz Friends r always special..wo melting into the arms waali feeling..aaye haaye..



11. In our office when the farewells were done properly tab bhi wo farewell hugs were nice..& if the friendship was good then
you could notice a few tears at the corner of the eyes symbolizing memories of the wonderful times spent together..miss those days..


12. When
you rare not well or depressed over something tab if any of your friends just comes n gives you that jaadu ki jhappi instead of saying anything then that would be the best medicine anyone could give n the feeling would be out of the world..coz when we are feeling low then we don't need advice as all of us know what we need to do. We just need love n unconditional acceptance..

13. Wo formality wale hugs eg. politicians wale..jab unhe kisi ko zabardasti gale lagana padta hoga logo n media ko dikhaane ko ya koi kaam nikalwaane ko..


 P.S. But sometimes we need simple hugs to set things right n make people feel special or to tell them "Hey, I really care for
you..You mean the world to me or I value you / I love you.." or "Hey, you are special n you have been sent on this beautiful earth to make it a better more wonderful place to live in..Value yourself n don't feel like you are not important..You are awesome just the  way you are.. A hug delights and warms and charms, that must be why God gave us arms..


Saturday 17 January 2015

Living Funeral..

(Well, I wanted to write something today so this is straight out of my heart..)
I would like to have a living funeral coz I feel its better to say what we have to say n do to ppl who mean something to us while we r still alive..
V tend to fight, play d blame game,criticize n dont appreciate ppl when they r there with us..
Jab koi upar chala jayega tab ye kehne ka kya fayda ki wo achha aadmi tha..
Jab wo zinda hoga toh shayad usey lagta hoga ki uski koi value hi nahi hai..tab ja k bolna tha na ki bhai tu bahut achha insaan hai..
I always thought that when my soul would be about to leave d body then I'l tell ppl close to me that how much I love them but its pretty foolish coz ab yamraj aa k bolenge thodi na ki kal subah ki flight hai aapki..will prepare kar lo apni..
We meet a lot of ppl in our journey called life..I have heard that all r family n friends r ppl with whom we have had a past karmic account n our present relationships r pretty much influenced by d energy exchange dt v had in a previous costume(body).
There r ppl whom v may feel mean d world 2us but sometimes at another moment v may feel ki kuch tha hi nahi shayad..Its basically about d thoughts that v create about d other person..
Even if they don't reciprocate then also v'l b satisfied on our deathbed that "Wow..ye jiya main..Ye thi zindagi.."
& any1 can behave nicely if u r gud 2them but d real talent would be in being compassionate even if d other person is rude to you..That would be a bit difficult but Royal dt u r not losing ur dignity..


What I mean is that lets care,share,love,trust n respect ppl while they r still there with us n v must love ppl when they deserve it d least coz its then when they need it d most..
We dont know if v'l get up tomorrow morning so y not live everyday as if its our last..Someday, we will b right..

As it has been said in the following poem :
When I'll be dead, Your tears will flow But I won't know Cry for me now instead ! 
You will send flowers,.. But I won't see... Send them now instead ! 
You'll say words of praise,.. But I won't hear.. Praise me now instead ! 
You'll forget my faults,.. But I won't know... Forget them now, instead ! 
You'll miss me then,... But I won't feel... Miss me now, instead !
You'll wish... you could have spent more time with me,... Spend it now instead !!
 So y not Spend time with every person we love, every one we care for & make them feel special as we never know when time will take them away from us forever..


Monday 5 January 2015

I heard something n loved it so wanted2write on it..
Jisko dekh k aapko khushi nahi ho rahi hai wo aap k pass nahi aayegi..Aapko kisi ko milti safalta ko dekh k khushi nahi ho rahi hai ie.safalta ko dekh k khushi nhi ho rhi h toh wo aap k pass nahi aayegi coz ur vibrations r negative.uska mann nhi karega aapke yaha aane ka.soch thodi upar uthaye.dusre ki safalta dekh k khush ho jaye. safalta agar pasand hai toh jisko bhi mil rahi hai uske liye khush ho. Competition hatao.Co-operation lao..Auro ko aage badhao. Go out of ur way to co-operate with others..jo aatma dusre ko sahyog degi usko itni dua milegi..uski journey ko itna fuel milega ki wo apni capacity se kai guna aage badh jayegi so follow a simple sa rule..Dua Do..Dua Lo..

Friday 2 January 2015

HAPPY NEW YEAR..Oops..Sorry..Its HAPPY NEW YOU !!! COZ BABY IT'S NOT THE YEAR THAT HAS TO BE BETTER..iTS yOU..:)

  

"What can be said in New Year rhymes, 
That's not been said a thousand times? 
The new years come, the old years go,
 We know we dream, we dream we know.
 We rise up laughing with the light,
 We lie down weeping with the night. 
We hug the world until it stings, 
We curse it then and sigh for wings. 
We live, we love, we woo, we wed, 
We wreathe our prides, we sheet our dead. 
We laugh, we weep, we hope, we fear,
 And that's the burden of a year."



Time's transient trend brings an Old Year's end—
Good old friend, I bid thee adieu;
Again may I say, on a New Year's Day,
Behold all things are new!
With added age comes a clean white page,
And a hope that never dies,
For a record therein that's free from sin.
In the year that before me lies.
Last night came tears for the wasted years:
For the good that I failed to do;
For a record kept how I prayed and wept,
Yet failed to struggle through.
Like the babe that falls and tumbles and crawls.
Ere he walks in the way of men,
Though I stumble oft, am jeered and scoffed—
Thank the Lord, I rise again!
So the Old Year's played,
and its record made:
And though not what it might have been,
I will still press on in the new-found dawn.
Of a year yet free from sin;
By thy help, O God, may the path be trod
Where Thy glory e'er shall shine,
As I journey on in the glowing dawn
Of the year Two Zero One Five.


There's a new year coming your way..
 all frustrations drowned 
with the chill of cold air around 
as the new year rises array 
everybody say hip hip hurray!
 Do you remember the things that made you laugh, 
cry like a calf? 
never forget the luck you had the whole year;
if you didn't have any, don't moan saying' "oh dear"!
'cause there's more to come in the new year!
 Goodbye is what is said to this year
 expecting more to happen in the next year. 
Have fun everyone! and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!


Let go of things that you are not supposed to hold on to. They made you happy once, but maybe this time, they'll make someone happier..We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day.This New Year resolve to find out more about who you are.

  New year is the time to forget every bad memory of the past year and start your life afresh. So, get up and hug a friend with whom you had a fight lately, get up and hug your parents and promise them you will not hurt them anymore, give a self hug and promise to yourself that come what may you would remain truthful to yourself, hug a poor kid and tell her that she is not alone, Help the needy and abolish the greedy from your life. 

Today, you've been blessed with a gift -- a fresh, pristine and gorgeous New Year. The limits of the past no longer can shackle you. Old fears need not frighten you. Who you were last year doesn't define who can be this year.
You see, you have a strength and power within you that longs to awaken now. You have more bravery than you know. More wisdom than you imagine.
My prayer for you -- and those you love -- is that you rise in 2015. Rise to meet all challenges with a peaceful heart. Rise above mediocrity in hot pursuit of mastery. Rise to live the life of your childhood dreams. You deserve no less.

Even during the worst of times
When I feel the years go slipping by
Life seems rife with possibilities
When the New Year arrives.
Buoyed by hope at the new year coming
I feel renewed and want to start living.
 .
 Here comes the New Year
 And its time to make resolutions 
For I promise to be sincere 
And bring in me a revolution.
 To my friends I'll be kind
 Have my character refined 
To a helper of mankind 
With a sound mind.

I'll follow my teacher's advice.
Regularly I'll exercise.
My mother I'll idolize.
Beyond doubt I'll civilize.
These are my resolutions.
To bring in me an evolution.
To follow them I'll try my best.
Until then I'll not rest.

  
This year I'll travel and see the sights
I'll be bold, I'll be courageous
I'll reach out and go beyond

 I'll be a new fish in a brand new pond.
This new year I'll be brave and I'll be strong.
Even though time does fly.
I won't let this year be wasted.
I'll look forward to new adventures
And be open to opportunities I am graced with.
I'll learn and laugh and have good times.
I won't dwell on years gone by.
I'll start each new morning a brand new way.
I'll pretend it is New Year's Day!



 As the world celebrates.
 With fireworks and cakes.

I'm standing here alone .
Far away from home.
With nothing but a suitcase and memories.
As the stars surround me like water
I raise my hands in full surrender
To God, my Redeemer Lord,
this year is far from ordinary.
I've never seen such extraordinary.
People, places and things.
Amazing human beings.
Searching for purpose, just like me.

Looking around, I wonder.
Since a year is like clashing thunder.
Booming suddenly.
Then vanishing instantly.
Why waste time uselessly?
The old year came and went.
I hope your time was wisely spent.
On helping others, working hard.
So that many people may regard.
Your lifetime as truly great.
And not just because of fate.
So learn this lesson, but not from me!
Try it yourself and you will see.
Making a difference starts with one step.
With one foot, then the next.
So walk right now, into the light.
And find yourself shining bright.
Don't worry what people think
Because right now you're on the brink
Of showing others what is true.
 Happy New Year, from me to you.



 Hail, New-born Year!
 Cradled in morning clouds Golden and white. 
I cannot see Thy face--'tis wrapp'd in mystery; 
But Spring for thee is painting flowers, 
And Summer decks her woven bowers; 
Rich Autumn's sheaves will soon be reap'd,
 With store of fruits in sunbeams steep'd,
 And one by one with gentle hand folds back thy sunlit shrouds.



Here’s to the new year... May it bring more joy and success And less grief and regret.
To our dreams... May we never stop believing in them And taking the actions that will make them a reality.
To our friends, loved ones, associates (or colleagues)... May we take the time to let them know How much it means to us To have them in our lives.
Let us encourage more and criticize less, Give more and need less. And whenever we can, Let us create harmony and peace.
To new beginnings... Let us start fresh, right now, To make this the very best year ever.
A very Happy New Year to all of us!


 How can I use the New Year 


I’ll find new ways to serve others;
I’ll focus on "give" instead of "get"
In everything I do.
I’ll forgive the people I’m mad at;
Angry feelings I’ll discard;
I’ll try to love my enemies,
Even though it’s hard.
In the new year, I’ll lift people up,
Instead of putting them down.
I’ll fill my heart with love and joy,
And never wear a frown.
I’ll let go of my worries;
I’ll put it all in His hands;
I’ll repent and try to sin less,
And obey all His commands.
These new year’s resolutions
Are difficult, at best,
But there’s something I can do each day
 That will put my soul at rest:





Fulfillment in the New Year
Here’s to the outgoing year,  "2014"
 that’s past its expiration date—
 We all had some surprises, didn’t we?
 Some good, some distressing.
 Let’s use everything we got from our experiences, everything we learned, to enrich the new year.
 May the good times live on in our memories,
and may we learn lessons from the troubling times that will make us stronger and better than ever.

Here’s to  "2015"
May its bright, shiny package contain even more than we hope for.
And even while we’re delighting in new treasures, let’s appreciate fully what we already have— the blessings we take for granted. Make a list, and check it twice.
And here’s to all you wonderful people.
   I hope in the new year you see yourselves the way I see you: intelligent, interesting, and likable.
 For each and every one of you,
May it be filled with significant steps towards the fulfillment of your fondest wishes.
In this coming new year, let us focus on our goals and work toward our dreams, and yet (smile) let’s all try to go with the flow a little more and stress a little less.
And most important, here’s to all of you.
Appreciate yourselves and each other in the new year as I appreciate all of you now.
 Let’s focus on each other’s good points and choose to overlook minor annoyances to create mutual happiness and contentment in "2015").
Here’s to 2015  (raise glass): Enjoy the journey!


Look For The Good
In the New Year, let's resolve to get less stressed, upset, anxious about things over which we have no control. Lets have a narrower focus on our lives, loving and helping our family and friends, making our community a better place to live, to create peace and contentment.
In the New Year, let's resolve to pay less attention to depressing stories on TV, in magazines and newspapers, and to stop focusing on what we want that we haven't got, instead of appreciating the many blessings we do have.
In the New Year, let's look for the good. We may have to search through a mass of negative media, but the good is there, all around us.
I wish for you a New Year filled with good, engulfed in serenity and happiness!May this new year find you healthier and happier, peaceful, content, satisfied, looking forward to fresh, revitalizing interests, a variety of pleasures, interesting new people, material, personal & spiritual successes to make this new year the best one yet.

In the New Year, I wish you the best year you’ve ever had, and that each New Year will be better than the last. May you realize your fondest dreams and take time to recognize and enjoy each and every blessing.
Happy New Year, And many more !

 So, just forget all your grudges and send these wonderful new year wishes to your loved ones. Let the New Year make you correct all your vices and brush up all your virtues as you strive to put your best foot forward to welcome the brand new year.. Wishing all u lovely people out there a very happy, hot n happening year ahead filled with all d fragrances of roses, illuminated with all d lights of the world & blessed with all d smiles on d planet..May 2014 be your best year yet..Cheers to 2014..Have a blessed life..Be the best version of you..Keep Smiling..keep Shining..n do take very good care of yourselves..