Those 3 Magical Words " I LOVE YOU !!! "

Those 3Magical Words as I see it..

 (Love is a feeling that can b 4ur country, ur parents, friends not only about life partners n I'm not talking about Romantic flings.. Until u love urself,u cant love any1 else..)
When I say "I Love U" den it means I love U as U r without any terms n conditions whatsoever..
Though I dont prefer speaking it up but I'd rather prefer showing it or bringing it into action ie. doing whatever I can do 4them selflessly without any expectations whatsoever..
Its said that "Love me when I deserve it d least coz its then when I need it d most.."
If I love U only when U work as per my set of rights n wrongs then that's not love,that's business..
When some1close2us makes a mistake then they r already in guilt..Dey need r love n support2come out of it..but majority of us tell them "I didn't expect this 4m U..U hv changed..I dont want2b wid U.."
Now c how damaging dis is 4d soul..Its d time when v ought2empower dem by r love n support but instead v ourselves go in2hurt n add pain to their pain..so v need2ask ourselves that "Are v really playing our part well n r v really there4ppl whom v claim2love..? "

I feel that if I really love U then I love U with all ur imperfections n flaws coz all of us hv r share of strengths n weaknesses..regardless of d circumstances..notwithstanding d conditions..dts true love I guess..Its all about sending pure positive vibes n unconditional acceptance..dts how I interpret it..
It has nothing 2do with d statistics,color,height,weight,bank balance,Jaguar..
Its just a silent promise that "I will b there 4U no matter what happens..That would be irrevocable n unconditional love.."

I had d illusion that I loved a lot of ppl - family,best friends, friends etc. but I heard something n it got me thinking.."If U dont love urself then U cant love any1 else" Yes.. coz how can U give something that U dont have..?
As per d old beliefs, ppl mostly felt that taking care of urself n loving urself would sound selfish but this line made me contemplate..
I thought that I need2hv a reality check that if presently I dont even accept myself 4who I am n hvnt learnt d art of loving myself then how can I claim that I love others..?
Hum apne aap se din bhar baat karte hai n dusro se toh kuch time k liye hi interact karte h..Anything that v repeatedly do becomes our habit(our sanskaars)..The energy that v create 4ourselves would become our aura n it'l b radiated2others..
Apne ko Disrespect karte h toh dusre k liye Respect possible nahi h..
Apne ko Criticize karte h toh Dusro ko Appreciate karna Possible nahi h..
V can use v.gud words but r energy wud b critical coz it has become r aura n our Relationships r based on d energy that v send2others..Jo Perfume laga rhe ho aap usi ki smell radiate kar sakte ho..kisi aur perfume ki nahi..
Even in a flight u r told2put ur own Oxygen Mask 1st of all coz if U r not alive urself then how can U save others..?
Jo cheez humare pass hai hi nahi wo dusro ko kaise denge..? so if I dont create loveful thoughts4myself then how can I love any1else?
So, Gently say2urself "I love U before U say it to anyone else..!!! "