I had d illusion that I loved a lot of ppl - family,best friends, friends etc. but I heard something n it got me thinking.."If U dont love urself then U cant love any1 else" Yes.. coz how can U give something that U dont have..?
As per d old beliefs, ppl mostly felt that taking care of urself n loving urself would sound selfish but this line made me contemplate..
I thought that I need2hv a reality check that if presently I dont even accept myself 4who I am n hvnt learnt d art of loving myself then how can I claim that I love others..?
Hum apne aap se din bhar baat karte hai n dusro se toh kuch time k liye hi interact karte h..Anything that v repeatedly do becomes our habit(our sanskaars)..The energy that v create 4ourselves would become our aura n it'l b radiated2others..
Apne ko Disrespect karte h toh dusre k liye Respect possible nahi h..
Apne ko Criticize karte h toh Dusro ko Appreciate karna Possible nahi h..
V can use v.gud words but r energy wud b critical coz it has become r aura n our Relationships r based on d energy that v send2others..Jo Perfume laga rhe ho aap usi ki smell radiate kar sakte ho..kisi aur perfume ki nahi..
Even in a flight u r told2put ur own Oxygen Mask 1st of all coz if U r not alive urself then how can U save others..?
Jo cheez humare pass hai hi nahi wo dusro ko kaise denge..? so if I dont create loveful thoughts4myself then how can I love any1else?
So, Gently say2urself "I love U before U say it to anyone else..!!! "