The Copy Cat Syndrome

 All of us now-a-days tend to copy each other..as in if u look at me & turn your face away then I'll also ignore U..If u tell someone that u know today is xyz's birthday then they reply so what.. he didn't wish me so why should I..?

 If someone visits U & u love cooking n hospitality so u took leave from the office, made 7dishes & u guys had a lovely time..now when u suppose visit their home & they thought that this is not the time for dinner & lunch toh aap apne ghar se kar k hi aaye honge so may be they didn't cook anything..They just served snacks..now ur internal conversation starts..ki see when they came to my place then I made 7dishes..at least they could have made 3..achha sirf khichdi hi bana lete.. n u go in to hurt..

Now u decide that when they'll come to ur place next time then u'll offer only biscuits so u left ur quality coz of them..

Now may be u love cooking so u did it beautifully but I hate cooking..For me, its the biggest waste of time in this world..I can stand & talk & write my heart out & every1 cant do it coz everyone has different qualities..

If suppose I have this quality of going out of my way to help people..I can leave all my work & go to help someone in need..Now when I needed help no one was there for me so I'll go into hurt n will even think of leaving that quality of mine so u see my beautiful sanskaar has become a problem for me..

If suppose I meet 10 people during the day & if I copy everyone of them..They say hello & smile at me so I smile back at them. They ignore me & if I do the same then at the end of the day who am I..? What's my true identity ? Copy ki copy ki copy karte karte  dhula hua print ho jayega..

If v know that the other person will copy us then how can v use it..? Lets radiate only that energy which we feel comfortable while creating, radiating & receiving back..

 Now u see all of us r different & we have our own sets of sanskaars & qualities..Lets see an equation..If something is my quality den it has to be every time with everybody coz its my quality ie. this is who I am irrespective of who U r.. This is my personality..Don't lose ur original quality & don't copy others..Lets be natural..

Close ur eyes & behave only what comes comfortably to u..Lets speak, do & be what comes naturally to me..They don't trust me..doesn't matter..I trust them..They haven't called me up since the past few days..so what..I feel like talking to them..I'll call up instead of waiting for them to call me up.. Even if u keep trusting n d other person keeps doubting then also at least half of the relationship would be saved & sooner or later ur energy of love,compassion,acceptance,empathy,forgiveness, understanding will empower the other person to heal & transform themselves..

so "Be ur best U..U r Unique & awesome just d way u r.." Lets be natural..

JAB TAK KAAM HAI..TERA NAAM HAI WARNA DOOR SE HI SALAAM HAI..!!!

There's a line that's very common now-a-days.
We all have heard about it or faced it a couple of times..
If any of our friends makes a mistake then at that particular time we remember just that particular mistake & forget about all the beautiful times that we had spent together when the other person was there for us & the times when we made a mistake & the other person readily forgave us & said "Its okay yaar.." coz at 1point of time we can create only1particular energy either love or anger & hatred. Anger & love can't co-exist..

Its important to realize that every1 is always right 4m their own perspective..(m not talking about rapes here)..All of us make mistakes..We all are  human beings..Every1 makes mistakes but they don't do it deliberately..

No1says "Okay. This is wrong.Come on,lets do it." Empathy is trying to see whats happening on the other side.May be that person is having a tough time..May be they r already dealing with the death of a family member & at that time what we need to do is empower them so as to help them heal themselves..but we shout at them coz we go into hurt &  feel that they didn't live up to our expectations coz we are able to see things from only our perspective..

We withdraw our support when the other person needed it the most. Lets remember that only those who are hurt can hurt others..

Lets love people when they deserve it the least coz its then when they need it the most.

When some1makes a mistake then what they need is our support, respect & love not advice & criticism coz they r already in guilt n if we withdraw our support then we are empowering their guilt. Its very damaging. Don't do it to anyone..

Friendship is accepting people as they are.

When two people can't see each others' perspective then there is conflict & when they see each others' perspective then there is harmony..Lets learn to Forgive people coz if v c things 4m their point of view then we'll have compassion for them not anger. It takes years to build relationships &  a moment to break things.

In the modern era of FB & whatsapp, our friendships have become so mechanical that when a situation arises den instead of talking it out with the other person & giving them an opportunity of being heard,v just remove them 4m r friend list or block them..

Lets understand that v r dealing with human beings not gadgets that v can switch on & off whenever we feel like..

A moment of anger can break everything that took years to build..Lets make time to think n understand each other & look at their qualities instead of that 1mistake..Lets understand that all of us r souls on a journey with r own sets of sanskaars..V all r working on ourselves..No 1 is perfect..

Lets try to forgive n forget things coz we don't know for how much time we will remain alive..

May be we won't see that person again in our life..May be I won't get up tomorrow morning so Lets live everyday as if its our last..Someday we will be right..

Lets love, care, respect, empower each other so as to make this world a more beautiful, wonderful place to live in..

Hey, Audi !!! Whats up dude..?

If ur tone changes while talking to the man in Jaguar & d rickshaw-puller den u r not talking to the person..U r talking to the  vehicle..

If ur tone changes while talking to a fair person & the one who is dusky then u r talking to the color not to the person..

If ur tone changes while  talking to the CEO & the watchman then u r talking to the designation not to the  person.. 

 

Lets stop talking to the designations, vehicles, color, Bank Accounts 

& lets try to communicate with that beautiful, powerful, pure soul that resides within everyone..

Its really sad when ppl look down upon others who have a dark complexion coz that person is born like that & the color of their skin is not in their control..Y not love them as they are..

Its d Character, Personality & r belief systems dat r most important & good looks without goodness becomes irritating after sometime like Success without Fulfillment is empty.

Lets try to look beyond physical appearances, caste, creed, color, height, weight, gender, status,
materialistic possessions..

Lets try to be Soul-Conscious instead of being Body-Conscious & love ppl 4who they r as a human being coz ultimately when we will die then we'll just carry forward r sanskaars with our soul..

No1 takes their body along with them so y fight over that..

Heal d world..Make it a better place 4u & 4me & the

entire human race..