I think...: JAB TAK KAAM HAI..TERA NAAM HAI WARNA DOOR SE HI SALAAM HAI..!!!

There's a line that's very common now-a-days.
We all have heard about it or faced it a couple of times..
If any of our friends makes a mistake then at that particular time we remember just that particular mistake & forget about all the beautiful times that we had spent together when the other person was there for us & the times when we made a mistake & the other person readily forgave us & said "Its okay yaar.." coz at 1point of time we can create only1particular energy either love or anger & hatred. Anger & love can't co-exist..

Its important to realize that every1 is always right 4m their own perspective..(m not talking about rapes here)..All of us make mistakes..We all are human beings..Every1 makes mistakes but they don't do it deliberately..

No1says "Okay. This is wrong.Come on,lets do it." Empathy is trying to see whats happening on the other side.May be that person is having a tough time..May be they r already dealing with the death of a family member & at that time what we need to do is empower them so as to help them heal themselves..but we shout at them coz we go into hurt & feel that they didn't live up to our expectations coz we are able to see things from only our perspective..

We withdraw our support when the other person needed it the most. Lets remember that only those who are hurt can hurt others..

Lets love people when they deserve it the least coz its then when they need it the most.

When some1makes a mistake then what they need is our support, respect & love not advice & criticism coz they r already in guilt n if we withdraw our support then we are empowering their guilt. Its very damaging. Don't do it to anyone..

Friendship is accepting people as they are.

When two people can't see each others' perspective then there is conflict & when they see each others' perspective then there is harmony..Lets learn to Forgive people coz if v c things 4m their point of view then we'll have compassion for them not anger. It takes years to build relationships & a moment to break things.

In the modern era of FB & whatsapp, our friendships have become so mechanical that when a situation arises den instead of talking it out with the other person & giving them an opportunity of being heard,v just remove them 4m r friend list or block them..

Lets understand that v r dealing with human beings not gadgets that v can switch on & off whenever we feel like..

A moment of anger can break everything that took years to build..Lets make time to think n understand each other & look at their qualities instead of that 1mistake..Lets understand that all of us r souls on a journey with r own sets of sanskaars..V all r working on ourselves..No 1 is perfect..

Lets try to forgive n forget things coz we don't know for how much time we will remain alive..

May be we won't see that person again in our life..May be I won't get up tomorrow morning so Lets live everyday as if its our last..Someday we will be right..