The Copy Cat Syndrome

 All of us now-a-days tend to copy each other..as in if u look at me & turn your face away then I'll also ignore U..If u tell someone that u know today is xyz's birthday then they reply so what.. he didn't wish me so why should I..?

 If someone visits U & u love cooking n hospitality so u took leave from the office, made 7dishes & u guys had a lovely time..now when u suppose visit their home & they thought that this is not the time for dinner & lunch toh aap apne ghar se kar k hi aaye honge so may be they didn't cook anything..They just served snacks..now ur internal conversation starts..ki see when they came to my place then I made 7dishes..at least they could have made 3..achha sirf khichdi hi bana lete.. n u go in to hurt..

Now u decide that when they'll come to ur place next time then u'll offer only biscuits so u left ur quality coz of them..

Now may be u love cooking so u did it beautifully but I hate cooking..For me, its the biggest waste of time in this world..I can stand & talk & write my heart out & every1 cant do it coz everyone has different qualities..

If suppose I have this quality of going out of my way to help people..I can leave all my work & go to help someone in need..Now when I needed help no one was there for me so I'll go into hurt n will even think of leaving that quality of mine so u see my beautiful sanskaar has become a problem for me..

If suppose I meet 10 people during the day & if I copy everyone of them..They say hello & smile at me so I smile back at them. They ignore me & if I do the same then at the end of the day who am I..? What's my true identity ? Copy ki copy ki copy karte karte  dhula hua print ho jayega..

If v know that the other person will copy us then how can v use it..? Lets radiate only that energy which we feel comfortable while creating, radiating & receiving back..

 Now u see all of us r different & we have our own sets of sanskaars & qualities..Lets see an equation..If something is my quality den it has to be every time with everybody coz its my quality ie. this is who I am irrespective of who U r.. This is my personality..Don't lose ur original quality & don't copy others..Lets be natural..

Close ur eyes & behave only what comes comfortably to u..Lets speak, do & be what comes naturally to me..They don't trust me..doesn't matter..I trust them..They haven't called me up since the past few days..so what..I feel like talking to them..I'll call up instead of waiting for them to call me up.. Even if u keep trusting n d other person keeps doubting then also at least half of the relationship would be saved & sooner or later ur energy of love,compassion,acceptance,empathy,forgiveness, understanding will empower the other person to heal & transform themselves..

so "Be ur best U..U r Unique & awesome just d way u r.." Lets be natural..